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“Step Away from the Books, Karen, and No One Gets Hurt”

“Step Away from the Books, Karen, and No One Gets Hurt”

Have you ever thought similar thoughts when reading about decluttering? There are certain categories of STUFF that a lot of my clients and followers are very protective of: books, clothes, shoes, arts and crafts supplies and children’s artwork, and belongings of deceased loved ones to name a few. When I post about or talk aboutRead more about “Step Away from the Books, Karen, and No One Gets Hurt”[…]

Who has more influence on your life? The Inner-Critic or The Inner-Best Friend?

Who has more influence on your life? The Inner-Critic or The Inner-Best Friend?

Why does it seem that The Inner-Critic (TIC) has a much stronger influence on our lives?

TIC talks us out of many things from getting a new job, asking someone out, wearing a certain outfit, speaking out, drawing, writing, etc, etc, etc. TIC typically plays off of our weaknesses and knows how to push our buttons.

The Inner Best-Friend (TIBF) knows what our weaknesses are and points out our strengths. TIBF will certainly call us out on our BS yet does so with love in their heart.

TIBF builds us up while TIC tears us down.

 

 

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The Gift That Will Last My Son a Lifetime:  A Pineapple Upside Down Cake?

The Gift That Will Last My Son a Lifetime: A Pineapple Upside Down Cake?

The holiday season is beginning and I’m seeing the gift idea blog posts popping up in my news feed.  You know exactly the ones I’m talking about-what to give someone that has everything, best gifts for Dad, what Mom really wants, what experiences to gift…and of course the top 20 must have toys. But IRead more about The Gift That Will Last My Son a Lifetime: A Pineapple Upside Down Cake?[…]